One Woman’s Journey to Reclaim Her Life
There are moments when life changes in an instant, leaving us with a depth of pain we never anticipated. For her, that moment came after a decade-long relationship that had been the core of her world. After years of shared dreams and loyalty, he revealed he had met someone new. That revelation triggered a cascade of events, sending her into a spiral of heartbreak, pain, and loss.
Suddenly, the life she’d known was shattered. As they still shared a home, the emotional weight of seeing him daily grew unbearable. She eventually escaped to her mother’s house, hoping for some comfort. But instead, she found herself revisiting painful memories and unhealed childhood traumas. A therapist prescribed antidepressants to help her cope. Yet, she experienced a profound chemical imbalance. It only deepened her struggle.
For months, she was trapped in a debilitating depression. She could not get out of bed. Her sense of self and purpose felt completely erased. Her financial dependency on him further complicated her journey toward recovery. In her words, she had given everything to this relationship, losing herself in the process. That’s when she reached out to me.
The Road to Recovery: Small Steps, Big Wins
We began working together, taking small but transformative steps. The journey wasn’t easy. It certainly wasn’t instant. However, each session brought her closer to rediscovering her own strength and worth.
- The First Session – She got out of bed. That might seem small, but after months of not moving, this was a significant achievement.
- The Third Session – Confidence began to return. She reconnected with friends. She reminded herself of the support network around her.
- The Fifth Session – She began helping others, even attending a fair to assist her friend with Reiki healing. This experience reawakened her passion for healing, which had once brought her so much purpose.
Progress Despite Setbacks
Of course, healing is rarely a linear path. Living under the same roof with constant reminders of him and their shared life was painful. These reminders led to moments where she felt trapped by her thoughts. But with each session, we worked to gently release her from these emotional memories and patterns.
With time, her resilience began to shine through. She was reclaiming her life, bit by bit, and finding joy in everyday routines again. She recently shared a personal milestone that truly moved me:
“I’ve been up since 8, showered, breakfast, walked the dog, cleaned house, bathroom, and hoovered – put washing up. I’m full of adrenaline – can’t make it stop.”
These words were a testament to her progress. She had endured months of darkness. Now, she was not just getting through the day. She was experiencing life with energy and optimism again.
A Future Built on Independence and Joy
Today, she’s financially stable, back at work, and rediscovering her purpose. While old wounds remain and healing is an ongoing journey, her strength has emerged from the shadows of her past. She is no longer dependent on him. She is independent financially, emotionally, or otherwise. She is building a new life centered around her joy and independence.
Watching her transformation has been a privilege. It serves as a reminder of the resilience that lies within each of us. This is especially true when supported by genuine connection and guidance. Her journey is far from over, but she’s proof that even in the darkest of times, healing is possible.
Here’s to everyone out there facing their own struggles. May her story remind you that you, too, can find light at the end of the tunnel. 💖
Shamanic Healing 